Before He Cheats

When I started taking photos for this blog, I honestly didn’t know which direction it was going to go in. I got the pictures and showed a friend and she had the same reaction I did and the name was decided. I have been cheated on, lied to and left broken, thinking it was me but each time something like this has happened it has only made me stronger. I know who I am and never again will someone use me in any way.

It sure is a nice car, isn’t it? Too bad it’s about to meet the business end of my bat. I haven’t been able to find this car available for sale so at this point, I am not going to credit it but the pose, on the other hand, was created by none other than Image Essentials and is available at Designer Showcase. This bento pose is made for men and women and comes with a wearable mesh bat. In order to use bento poses you MUST have a bento enabled viewer, for more realism bento hands are recommended.

Pose: Image Essentials – Batter Up V1-3F – Designer Showcase


Next up is this amazing dress and shoes from Wicca’s Wardrobe, both available at Mesh Body Addicts this month. One dress, one HUD and 6 color options for both the dress and the belt decor you can mix and match to your heart’s content. The shoes also have the same 6 color options, as well as both, have metal change options.

Dress: Wicca’s Wardrobe – Rania Dress – Mesh Body Addicts

Shoes: Wicca’s Wardrobe – Mydia Shoes – Mesh Body Addicts


I’ve used this backdrop before but I really love it. Bad Unicorn released this a few months ago in a set of urban style backdrops and they are just perfect for so many things.

Backdrop: Bad Unicorn – The Docks Backdrop


There are only a few more days to get to this year’s Hair Fair and trust me you DO NOT want to miss out on the amazing hair that the creators have put out. Tableau Vivant released this stunning hair along with several others, including a male hair that my boyfriend couldn’t wait to grab since it’s just like his hair in RL. It’s uncanny really. This hair is so much fun and is available in all the standard colors.

Hair: Tableau Vivant – Duona Blonds – Hair Fair 2017


This skin is from June’s Catwa Powder Pack but with the release of the July Powder Pack imminent I wanted to remind everyone of the quality and stunning products that come with each Powder Pack release. Amara Beauty released Livia in all 12 available skin tones with a body HUD for the June Catwa Powder Pack, it has 3 eyebrow options as well as makeups built in as well. This is the kind of amazing products you can expect in every Powder Pack. You have until 11:59 pm on July 16 to pre-order this month’s Powder Pack, don’t forget!

Skin: Amara Beauty – Livia 03 – June Catwa Powder Pack


Powder Pack Marketplace

Banana Banshee is back with an all-new set of gorgeous eyes, Dreams is a set of 6 eye colors sold individually or as a fatpack with light and dark sclera options. They are at TWE12VE until July 31. Each color is 79L or 259L for the fatpack.

Eyes: Banana Banshee – Dream Sanjati – TWE12VE


West End released this Daenerys-inspired shape last month and I like it so much I decided to show it off again. Made exclusively for Catwa Catya bento mesh head it is so pretty. My version is not modifiable but the one you purchase you will have the ability to change it up some if you so choose. The shape out of the box is perfection though, even if I do like a little more curve.

Shape: West End – Dae Shape


Blushes Boutique has an amazing set of eyelashes for sale at the main store and MP location, Flirt is a set of 5 eyelashes for Catwa mesh head.

Eyelashes: Blushes Boutique – Flirt


Last but not least is this stunning necklace from Indulge Temptation. Available at Designer Circle in 6 different HUD options with metal, bead, and leather cord colors available. You can mix and match to suit your style completely.

Necklace: Indulge Temptation – Infinity Necklace – Designer Circle


Future World

The past couple of week has really had me on edge in RL, from a husband that went and spent every last penny we had to a manager meeting where they taught us how to micromanage our people more through a system called delegation. This had me thinking of my future and what I really want from it, how I want to get there and what I need to do to get there. Becoming a criminal in the future isn’t what I envision but this was sure a fun photo to shoot!

So I got this amazing outfit to blog from Wicca’s Wardrobe and when my boyfriend Maxe saw it, he immediately said “I see a motorcycle chase, your hair blowing in the wind with a cop car chasing you” I took it one step further with a hoverbike I’d won during one of the Arcade round and begged my mom to make me a pose that worked with it. So this is what happens when an idea is put into my head and I run with it!
This outfit is from The Gacha Gardens and as previously stated by Wicca’s Wardrobe. There are 3 rares and 17 commons to win from this machine, the rares include a HUD for color change to match each one of the common items and each common item comes with a metal change HUD.

Outfit: Wicca’s Wardrobe – Shailyn Bra, Top, Corset (common), Shorts and Long Boots (rare) – Gacha Garden


This hoverbike is wearable and rideable, but I rezzed it out to use it as a prop with the pose that mom made me, the pose is not available for sale but you can still go grab the hoverbike from the gacha machine at Aitui’s main store. It is 50L a pull and there are 10 commons and 1 rare to win.

Bike: Aitui – Wearable Hoverbike Teal


This hair is from Tableau Vivant and is another gacha item, and is still available at the main store as well. 75L a pull and you have 48 commons and 3 rares to win.

Hair: Tableau Vivant – Editorial Eastern Wind


White Widow has some of the most amazing, detailed tattoos in all of Second Life in my opinion. Assassin was previously released at an event and is now available at the inworld location and Marketplace. Assassin is a full sleeve tattoo that trails across your chest.

Tattoo: White Widow – Assassin


7 Deadly Skins is at the Dark Style Fair with an all new skin pack, Nove comes in 5 tones with Omega face and body appliers.

Skin: 7 Deadly Skins – Nove Cotton Candy – The Dark Style Fair


SlackGirl is in May’s Lelutka Powder Pack with this stunning new set of eyeshadows. Two versions are available in the box and even if you didn’t pre-order it, you can still grab the pack at the full price of 3000L.

Eyeshadow: SlackGirl – Night Shadow – Lelutka Powder Pack

SlackGirl Marketplace

Lelutka Powder Pack Marketplace

Mesange is back at We <3 Roleplay with an all new set of amazing eyes. Sheba is available in 15 colors with Omega appliers, standard and mesh eyes.

Eyes: Mesange – Sheba – We <3 RP


This mask is from Wicca’s Wardrobe and is the Seed of Inspiration prize from Gacha Garden, play the machine and win this prize.

Mask: Wicca’s Wardrobe – Shailyn Mask – Gacha Garden


Hopeful: Anti-Bullying Awareness

I recently saw a post on Facebook that completely made me ill, the level of degradation, the words of hate in the name of funny just made me angry. I was so angry that I went and bought the outfit that was the pun in their private/public joke.
It is NEVER ok to bully anyone. Whether it is a peer, a designer in Second Life, or one child to another. We can all do our part to stop bullying. My part was “applauding” these people for their hateful comments, I fought back with kindness and then I supported the designer that was the brunt of their joke.

This is the outfit in question, the one made fun of and the comments were so rude and hateful that they don’t deserve to be revisited. Personally, I love this outfit so much I went to Collabor88 and bought the entire fatpack of both the top and the shorts. I think she did a fabulous job of creating this set.

Outfit: Atomic – Chill Out Sweatshirt and Shorts – Collabor88

I also visited Shoetopia and grabbed these awesome trainers from Vale Koer. As with any product by this fabulous designer, the HUD is extensive and gives you so many options of how to wear them, including flat and tip-toe.

Shoes: Vale Koer – Adored Trainers Fatpack – Shoetopia

Pose: Pilot & Exposeur – Stay Thirsty 2

LocationGardens by the Bay

Project Se7en opened today and with it came this awesome hair from Tableau Vivant, the short, wispy style is so much fun.

Hair: Tableau Vivant – Thea [frizzy chic] Naturals I – Project Se7en

This skin is from another creator, on that I do officially blog for and one I consider a friend. She’s been told her skins are horrible and that she should just give up. I, on the other hand, find her skins stunning, fun, and unique. The options that come with Lumae skins are by far some of the best. Plain and freckled, appliers for just about everything out there. The prices are extremely reasonable and there are 10 skin tone varieties to choose from. This particular skin is called Ruby and is available at The Avenue. Makeup free and ready for your Catwa only head, it’s perfect.

Skin: Lumae – Ruby Catwa Bare – The Avenue

I love Mesange eyes and these are an older set but they are still so perfect. 15 different eye colors to choose from or a fatpack that includes all you will never need another set of eyes again unless you buy another Mesange pack.

Eyes: Mesange – Human Soul Eyes

The newest round of Cosmopolitan is going on now, running until April 9. You can grab two amazing new nail polishes from ZOZ while there. All ZOZ nails come with Omega, Maitreya, Slink, ZOZ mesh nail and Vista Bento appliers.

NailsZOZ – Daisy Trio Polish – Cosmopolitan Event

ZOZ is also having a storewide sale at their main location!

I’m Odd

Sometimes you have an idea and things just fall into place, little or no effort on your part and this blog is one such occurrence. I had an early day at work, dinner already in the crockpot and so I had time on my hands, I’ve been wanting to get to this next outfit for a few days but, yeah Arcade got a hold of me. <.< Now that I am back in the real world and trying desperately to stay out of The Arcade (yes I might have a gacha addiction, but they don’t have an anonymous group for that yet) I have some awesome newness for you!

1313 Mockingbird Lane is at the newly opened Totally Top Shelf, this event runs from March 3  until March 24. The outfit includes the bodysuit, top hat, flamingo cane, floating cards and the mouthy watch. The boots are sold separately and come in 4 colors. Both items are on sale for a 20% reduction over normal price.

Outfit: 1313 Mockingbird Lane – Cheshire – Totally Top Shelf

Shoes: 1313 Mockingbird Lane – Dark Torment Heels Cheshire Stripes – Totally Top Shelf

This hair is from Tableau Vivant and is available at the current round of The Arcade (I know what you’re thinking and no this time I didn’t). The gacha is loaded with 4 different hair types all perfect for photography and come in various HUD options as well. There are a total of 27 commons and 3 rares to be won.

Hair: Tableau Vivant – Hairplay Down Blow – The Arcade

When I saw the outfit from 1313 I knew exactly where I wanted to take the picture, at Image Essentials Studios. Wonderland is one of the built in studios and has 15 poses built into it. While there don’t forget to go into the store and see the amazing poses being sold for men, women and couples as well as several props.

Location: Image Essentials Props and Poses Studio

Banana Banshee is back with an all new set of eyes. Bohemian eyes is a set of mesh eyes with an Omega and Genesis applier and includes 4 new tone in light and dark sclera. These eyes are available in the main store.

Eyes: Banana Banshee – Bohemian Mala Light

I am so excited about this next item. 7 Deadly Skins has been hard at work totally revamping her applier HUDs and adding a new skin tone as well. The Omega HUDs have been completely reworked to include a face and body applier all on one, they are just regular body skin tones in the HUD but the face is either regular, beauty marks, light freckled or heavy freckled. The all new body appliers will be sold separately and will include all 4 types of skin per tone. They are fast and easy to use and I’m absolutely in love with the new system. These new items will be available at the Skin Fair 2017 starting March 10! The LM to Skin Fair will be provided on March 10.

Face Applier: 7 Deadly Skins – Wednesday Cashew Full Freckle Omega HUD – Skin Fair 2017 Exclusive

Body Applier: 7 Deadly Skins – Cashew Omega Body Applier Full Freckled – Skin Fair 2017 Exclusive

Dark Passion – Koffin Nails is also at Totally Top Shelf with this amazing set of nails. Moon Magic is available for Omega, Maitreya and Slink and comes with 9 different textures. They are so beautifully done I can’t wait to wear them all. These nails will be 20% off for the duration of the event.

Nails: Dark Passions – Koffin Nails – Moon Magic – Totally Top Shelf


Pose Lover opens on May 31 and Body Art II Hunt begins on June 1 with so many awesome events you don’t wanna miss out on all the goodies available during June.


Zibska has this amazing tattoo and orbiting globes available during Body Art II Hunt as the gift. It comes with appliers and standard avatar layers.

Tattoo: Zibska ~ Frankie Sangue

The pose from Serendipity at Pose Lover doesn’t disappoint as usual. Ariella does an amazing job with her poses.

Pose: Serendipity: insane dance2

The hair is from Tableau Vivant and is available at the main store in the gacha area.

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Editorial \ Bent over – Redheads

Demons 2

Skin: 7 Deadly S{K}ins – Dawn Omega Applier – Taupe – Mesh Body Addicts

The eyes are from Banana Banshee during Body Art II Hunt and come with a HUD to change the eyes to black, red and yellow. They are mesh and take some modifying to fit your mesh head but still work fabulously.

Eyes: Banana Banshee – Demons I

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Storm Warning

I do not typically write two blogs in one day, unless I get some amazing stuff that inspires me of course. I got home from a funeral in real life last night and logged in and Cristian Ironblood of Ignition Art and Ines Lauria of Be.You did just that. They tempted me with some new goodies.

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I am pleased to have been accepted as a blogger for both Be.You and Ignition Art and this is my first official blog featuring both creators.

First up is this awesome dress from Ines and Be.You. The dress comes with a 9 color change hud. It’s super cute and I paired it with a set of leggings from !:Lybra:!  a free gift they had during the December round of On9. Since the December round is over you can’t get them as a gift anymore but you can still purchase them from the Lybra MP store. They are available for SLink and Maitreya only.

Dress: {BeYou} Domi Dress MAITREYA

Leggings: !:Lybra:! Liza Leggings (MAITREYA)

Pose: an lar [poses] The Infiniti Series – Three

Location: The Trace Too

Storm Warning 2

With the awesome scarf from Ignition Arts I needed the perfect hair, so I dug into my inventory for my Arcade prizes and came up with this super cute Tableau Vivant hair. It was an Arcade prize so is not available there any longer and as of today was not available in store, but keep your eyes peeled because this gacha was worth the pull.

The scarf from Ignition Art is unisex, with the option of right or left wear and a color change hud that will help you match any outfit. 14 different color options are available. Definitely pick this one up.

Scarf: Ignition Art – Flying Scarf Female – Left

Hair: Tableau Vivant \  Starry Night \ Windy – Browns

now on to items available to purchase RIGHT NOW!

I love septum rings, have started quite a collection to be fair and when I saw this one at FaMESHed I had to tell myself “no” because it didn’t fit in with what I was working on at the time, but then I came up with this blog idea and justified grabbing another septum ring. It’s great, has a hud for 4 individual metal colors and the ring and logo are separate, so you can mix and match the colors to your hearts content.

Septum Piercing: [Z O O M] Sirdis Ring Septum

Storm Warning 3

Everyone knows by now how much I love Zoz nails and I hit Cosmopolitan and saw this new hud I wanted it.

Nails: -{ZOZ}- Snowflake Glitter 2 (Maitreya)

Storm Warning 4

Finding the perfect shoes turned into my biggest challenge until I remembered the new boots by Reign available at FaMESHed. The boots are available in 8 individual colors and a fatpack. Each boot comes with a sock color change hud and they work with the Blueberry collaborative pants and leggings. You need these boots!

Boots: REIGN.-Bow Saddle Boots- Mocha